Instead of "I'll miss you," summer snacks and the weight of motherhood

Hi!

Whether you’re a week into school, getting ready for first-day goodbyes, or not quite there yet… I loved this tip: focus on the reunion, not the goodbye. So instead of “I’ll miss you so much,” —> “I can’t wait to see you later, I’m so excited to hear all about your day!” 💕

Also, two things I’m absolutely loving:

• This personalized calendar builder by Momento: so simple and easy to use with the just enough customization options to make things beautiful — but not complicated. Was the perfect find for a meaningful gift, check it out if you’re looking for something for yourself, MIL, or grandmother.

• This DIY sukkah craft that does not look like a DIY sukkah craft: magnificent Ushpizin Lucite art kit. An amazing activity for the kids and Sukkah-enhancer.

JUST FOR YOU

🎈REC: Try a different version of lunch box notes. For kids who don’t read yet or will be embarrassed to unpack a note, or for moms who are packing bags in a hurry there are other ways to send a virtual hug and show your child you’re thinking of them in middle of the day. Add a sticker to their snack bag or a surprise Dollar Tree prize to their bag for a midday smile.

🎨HACK: Find out how your kids day was. Not by asking “how was your day” (ofc).

Start with the easiest questions:

• Who was absent today?

• What did you eat first by lunch?

• Was anything weird today?

Once they’re talking, ask:

• How was your day on a scale of 1-10? (And then, what would've made it one point higher?)

• What made you laugh today?

• Was it a loud day or a quiet day in your class?

Hang these on the fridge if you’ll need a reminder.

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JUST FOR LAUGHS

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That’s all for today!💜☕

The JAM Fam

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